When Life Gives You Lemons…

Guest post from Rachael at “My Goals My Future”:

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BW when life gives you lemons

Right now the proverbial saying is resonating in my soul.  I could tell you why and how I currently feel like I have lemons in my life but the focus should be on moving forward.  I am contemplating if I want to make lemonade.

The phrase has an interesting history (if you can be bothered to Wikipedia it!) and I love this early poem: 

Life handed him a lemon,
As Life sometimes will do.
His friends looked on in pity,
Assuming he was through.
They came upon him later,
Reclining in the shade
In calm contentment, drinking
A glass of lemonade.

By Clarence Edwin Flynn, 1940, The Rotarian

It is strange how often in the moments we have a surplus of lemons rolling around that people tend to look on in pity, observing from the outskirts, sometimes whispering or simply walk away.  In those moments all we need is…

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What Is Your Purpose?

I was talking to a friend recently when the subject of purpose came up. This was purpose as in “what is the reason that you are here”? They identified their purpose as being to provide for their household; and as CEO of a successfully family-run SME, providing the means for others to support their families.

This seemed quite symmetrical to me. In satisfying their primary personal purpose (i.e. providing for their household) they were motivated to also pursue a professional purpose (i.e. running a successful business).

With respect to professional purpose, numerous studies confirm that employees self-report as being both happier with their work and more productive if they identify with the vision and goals of their team/company. Identifying with these things, when coupled with a feeling that they are making a valuable contribution towards group goals, they are afforded a sense of purpose. They are aware that they are a part of something that is bigger than themselves.

What Is Your Purpose?

What are they trying to achieve, individually and collectively? Is it a sales target? New business win? Project delivered on time? Striving to be the best manufacturer of thing-a-me-jigs? It really doesn’t matter as long as it has meaning to the individuals involved.

Professionally, the past 6 months have seen me introduced to a number of people who share a similar set of values and goals. Joining forces with a few of them, we are working together with the common purpose of building a viable business.

Personally, I find my self spending time working on becoming a better:

  • partner
  • friend
  • runner (super important; less than 8 months to the 10th Atacama Crossing!)
  • fundraiser

These are always in flux, as short-term goals and milestones are achieved, accompanied by rebalancing as life dictates.

What about you? Do you know what your purpose is?